I don't hate fat people who are struggling and willing to improve, or fat people who are just plus size and aren't a harm to their well being mentally, health risk etc.
or stay addicted to the self destruction and abuse on others
it has a better outcome
If white people had been slaves, would WLM be a thing right now?
I hate ignorance. Its not just a factor but it shows who you are
just like if you like porn, there are addicts who are the type to masturbate in public, lash out on others, sexually harass, then there's porn enjoyers who enjoy porn and can be excessively hypersexual but are in control of it, even asexual individuals can enjoy porn or sexual material
but if you're obese and think its cute and wont stop eating, I fucking hate it.
Do most men prefer curvy women or skinny women?
I hate the destructive addicts. Not the suffering or the average
just as I hate heavy ego narcissists who hate themselves and hurt others to feel better, its disgusting.
its not funny.
Is there scientific evidence for reincarnation? If so, how does it work and can it be proven through regression therapy?
I was once an ignorant, mean, disgusting person in a deep deep deep deep depression, improve, everything will be okay when you care about yourself, and its not easy
(I am not including drugs here, yes I agree you should improve but it’s easier said than done and a discussion for another topic)
not willing to change eating excessively, thinking its cute while also being a bad person, I hate it.
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I don’t hate disorders (binge eating)
choose your hard
care for yourself. respect yourself.
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I don't hate fat people, I hate people who don't take care of themselves.
but its also hard to improve
when it comes to PCOS, genetics, etc. I don't judge
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
improve
but it says a lot about a person if they're fat from eating too much and thinking is funny. no one is attracted to people who don’t care about themselves and act gross about it, honestly, that's just a category, its not fat people, its disgusting egoistic narcissistic individuals who hurt others and pity themselves and never take care of themselves, like being fat is no self control of food, or porn addicts who judge and aren’t responsible respectful consumers, or people who think they're always right and yell at people
for example, I do not hate obese people in 600 pound life, I feel bad for them and see their disorder and them trying to improve, but I hate fat people who don't change, wont stop eating, and aren't individuals to sympathize with. Not people stuck in a loop of addiction they cannot escape, instead “I love food haha where’s my snacks?” as they sit on a hospital bed amputated from overeating
What is the worst thing your sibling has done?
and maybe the suffering is the addict, but that’s what i’m saying, I dislike when hurt people hurt people, soon enough there is no excuse and only a reasoning, but nothing will make it healthy or okay
its hard to be this way
